Let me make this very clear

If your blog is on this blogroll, it has to display the blogroll. If it doesn't your blog will not be on the blogroll. I'm going through the list this week and removing every blog that doesn't have the blogroll on it. Everyone benefits if everyone carries the blogroll. Why should I have a link to your blog, if you are not linking to me? Your ranking in Technorita, google, yahoo, msn search and TLB increases but mine (and when I say mine, I'm including all the other women who are carrying the blogroll) does not. How does that benefit me?